Hopefully this article based on my 30 years of dating, romantic and live in relationships with women will save you time and aggravation if you’re a man. If you’re a woman reading this, don’t take this personally as the situation won’t work for you in reverse with the man who doesn’t appreciate these qualities in you as well. The one thing I’ve learned in life is what happens in the movies, TV and literature, does not happen in real life most of the time. I’m guessing that relationships with the scenarios I’ve listed below, will not work 90% of the time. I have absolutely nothing to back this up except my own personal experience and common sense. I’m basically writing what others think but won’t say out loud. If you’re one of those people who just wants to ignore the odds and thinks you’re the exception, then just ignore this article. Maybe it will work out for you. I’m happy for you if it does. As for myself, I don’t like getting into a situation where the odds are stacked against me from the start. This article is not meant as a condemnation of women with the characteristics I’ve described, just a commentary on what type of relationships won’t work out in all likelihood. Oh, yes, I admit to being a selfish person. Just remember, if you don’t love yourself, how are you going to expect someone else too?

Relationships That Definitely Won’t Work

1. Lack of Sexual Experience

If you’re a man who values good sex and the woman is either a Virgin or not sexually experienced, you should not get involved at all unless you don’t mind being the teacher and have a lot of patience. I’ve never been with a Virgin, have no desire to be the first and am totally turned off when a woman does not know what she’s doing sexually. In my opinion she’s not going to get any better with you.

2. Not your physical type

If someone is definitely not your physical type, things will not work out in the long run, no matter how much you like her personality, etc. For example, if you are attracted only to naturally large breasted women, you will not be compatible with someone with small or average sized breasts, no matter how much you love her. You might make things work in the short term but after a while basic instincts are going to kick in and you both will be miserable. Yes this is superficial. So what.

3. Has kids

If you don’t want to be involved with someone with kids, its not going to work out, as they’re not going anywhere.

4. Doesn’t Want Kids

If you want to eventually have kids and she doesn’t, it ain’t going to work.

5. Wants you to financially support her

If you just are getting by or have a good income but don’t intend to support anyone and the woman expects a man to a financially support her, say bye bye. Note, taking someone to dinner does not mean financial support!

6. She’s a Workaholic or Career Minded

If you want to be with a woman whose life revolves around you after 5:00 PM, you’re not going to get that from a woman that’s a workaholic or career minded.

7. Her Friends Are Important To Her

If you want to be in a relationship where life revolves around the two of you, then it won’t work out if friends are an important part of her life.

8. She smokes

If you are a non-smoker and also are afraid of being affected by second hand smoke, it ain’t going to work.

9. Doesn’t Want a Smoker and You Smoke

The reverse scenario of number eight above.

10. She has baggage/issues

Unless you want to be a social worker, run!

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