Don’t Be A Woman’s Best Friend If You Want to Be Her Boyfriend
I’ve never had problems getting girlfriends, mainly because I’ve never been a woman’s best friend first. Anyone who is best friends with a woman and then wants the relationship to turn romantic is in left field looking at right.
My rule of thumb is if a woman physically attracts you do not try to be her best friend first because that’s all she’s going to think of you as, her best friend or more specifically, “her gay best friend”, which I do not mean as an insult to Gays. She simply won’t think of you as a man with a penis and 2 balls with a sex drive for women. I know I’m not sounding like a nice person by saying this but that’s the fact Jack. I’ve never been in a situation where a woman who didn’t initially physically attract me did after I got to know her. Call me a lousy human being but I never have. Look at it from a woman’s point of view. You’ve been her “Gay Best Friend”, never trying to get physical with her like most men and all you’ve been is kind and nice to her when all of a sudden you suddenly take her out of her safety zone and try to get physical with her even if its just a kiss. That would freak most women out. An analogy would be like having a mild child who never raised his voice to his mother suddenly start screaming at her out of nowhere. The effect would be startling don’t you think. What do you expect the womans reaction to be when she’s been thinking of you as “her gay best friend” and suddenly your slobbering on her lips!
The bottom line is, if you see a woman you are attracted to, ask her out on a date right away and take things from there if she says yes. Don’t try to be her best friend instead as it will get you nowhere and be awkward most of the time because she’ll either think of you as a eunuch or as I said “her gay best friend” and you’ll never be boyfriend and girlfriend. If you think well I’m a nice guy and I need to be her friend first then you’re blowing it. You can be a nice guy and ask someone for a date right away without being her friend first!
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