Female Dating Advice: Biggest Mistakes Women Make on a First Date
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Most of the advice I’ve given to on this site in regards to dating and relationships has been to men because I’m one but here’s some dating advice to women as told in straight no punches pulled non-politically correct BS from a man’s viewpoint, that you’re free to use or reject. The following is a list of mistakes women make on first dates including Blind Dates that turn off most men like myself:
1. Don’t emphasize or point out your worst inner or outer qualities at all. We as men don’t want to know, we’re not social workers and its a turn off. So just keep quiet about these.
2. Don’t tell us why your ex broke up with you. Do you truly think a potential boyfriend wants a girlfriend who their ex boyfriend thought was overweight for example? We’re not interested in other peoples rejects so don’t identify yourself as one. Also don’t say your ex is a psycho. None of us want to get killed for a woman we just met, sorry.
3. On your first date, dress to show yourself off. If you don’t dress to show yourself off, it shows you don’t care enough for your date. If you have a sexy figure, dress to show it off but not enough to be arrested. Definitely do not do the opposite and dress like a frump. Frump is not appealing.
4. If you have kids, unless the other person is interested, don’t harp on your kids. It makes you sound less sexy and older and may make your date think you’re looking for a father for your kids.
5. Don’t break a first date no matter how valid the excuse is because chances are the guy isn’t going to believe you and probably won’t reschedule.
6. Don’t talk on the phone for more than 15 minutes before your first date or you will be so talked out you won’t have anything to say on the first date.
7. Don’t discuss how wonderful past relationships were and how men spent money on you and/or how you expect it. It makes you sound like a gold digger or a prostitute.
8. If you don’t see the potential for a relationship, don’t lead the guy on and just make up a lie like your still hoping to make a go of it with your ex. That will definitely turn someone off. If it doesn’t and they phone again to ask you out, just lie and say, it’s not a good idea because you just found out you’re pregnant. Before you can finish saying pregnant, they’ll have hung up for good!
9. If you smoke, you should tell your date beforehand, as this could be an instant deal breaker.
10. Don’t have your friends show up or around on your first date, just make it one on one. There is nothing more uncomfortable then having people you don’t know drop by in the middle of a first date for the other party.
If I offended you, its just because I’m not trying to shade the truth. Sure there are some Enlightened men that won’t be turned off by things I said not to do but most of us are not Enlightened and act as I describe. In any case, I hope your future first dates wind up great.
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